Losing Dobby: Grieving a Pet Who Was Family
Losing Dobby: Grieving a Pet Who Was Family It has been a little while since we have posted, and the truth is, life has been heavy. The day after Father’s Day, we said goodbye to our sweet Dobby after a nine-month battle with congestive heart failure. When Dobby was first diagnosed, we were told we might have six months left with him. Somehow, with love, care, medication, hope, and probably a little bit of Dobby’s own stubborn spirit, we were given nine. Nine months. Nine months of extra cuddles. Nine months of watching him closely. Nine months of celebrating good days and fearing the hard ones. Nine months of trying to prepare our hearts for something no heart is ever truly ready for. And then, on June 22nd, Dobby crossed the Rainbow Bridge. The Grief No One Can Fully Prepare You For Losing a pet is not “just losing a dog.” It is losing a family member. A shadow. A routine. A heartbeat in the home. It is looking toward the spot where they used to sleep and feeling the silence hit you ...